A Man Told a Guy He Only Met 'Once' That His Girlfriend Was Cheating — Now He's Unsure If He Should Have Gotten Involved

A man told a alien whom he has only met “once” that his girlfriend cheated connected him — and he’s now not truthful judge it was nan correct call. 

The 20-year-old elaborate his acquisition connected nan celebrated Reddit forum “Am I nan A------,” a spot wherever Reddit users tin spell to activity input astir interpersonal dilemmas.

In his post, nan Redditor explained that 1 of his “friends,” whom he clarifies is “more aliases little [an] acquaintance,” kissed personification who was not her fellow during a caller nighttime out. The man besides explained that while he wasn’t location to spot nan buss for himself, he learned astir it done a group chat.

The man went connected to explicate that he past sewage 1 of his friends — who he says is “not connected” to nan business —  to anonymously connection nan fellow and “let him know.” 

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The original poster (OP) said that he would usually person told nan fellow — whom he has only met "once" — directly, but he was trying not to get anyone successful his group chat involved. However, nan OP said that nan remainder of nan group successful nan group chat yet recovered retired what he did and person since told him he should person stayed retired of it. 

The OP said that while he understands wherever his friends are coming from, he believes that “if someone’s cheating, group should beryllium saying worldly arsenic soon arsenic possible.”

“Am I nan a------?” he asked his chap Redditors.

The immense mostly of nan man’s chap Reddit users said that they deliberation he made nan correct telephone and that he’s not nan bad feline successful this scenario.

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“No, you're not nan a------,” said 1 person. "She cheated connected him, and you told him she did. It's her responsibility for cheating.”

“Always oust cheaters,” said personification else, adding, “And anyone who thinks it’s incorrect to do truthful has questionable morals.”

“NTA [not nan a------]. TBH [to beryllium honest] I’d reconsider nan relationship pinch those group who saw and didn’t opportunity thing to nan boyfriend,” added personification else.

After reference nan various comments, nan OP said that while his friends made immoderate “valid” points astir his actions “affecting definite situational things” he has still not apologized — nor does he scheme to."

“[I am] americium sticking by my actions,” he said.