A Woman Says She’s Being Blamed for Keys Her Mother Lost a ‘Month’ Ago — 'This Is Insanity'

A female says that she’s being blamed for keys that her mother mislaid a period agone — and she’s now asking others if her annoyance complete nan business is justified.

She elaborate her communicative connected the “Am I Being Unreasonable” forum connected nan U.K.-based organization tract Mumsnet.com, a spot wherever women tin spell to activity proposal from different women astir interpersonal issues. In her post, nan female — who is joined pinch a toddler — said that her mother concisely stopped by their location past period truthful that they could each thrust to a wedding together.

Now, “weeks later,” she said her mother is insisting that she near an important group of keys connected a hallway array during nan visit.

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“It’s keys to my grandparents’ house, and she said she took them from her car and put them location for safekeeping,” nan original poster (OP) added.

“The keys aren’t location and [my husband] and I haven’t seen them,” nan female continued.

She went connected to opportunity that her mother told her she is “very disappointed” successful her for “losing her keys,”  and keeps messaging her to inquire that she “look again properly.”

The OP said that her mother moreover claims she plans to tie a “diagram” truthful that nan OP and her hubby tin find nan missing item.

“AIBU [am I being unreasonable] to deliberation this is insanity?” nan female asked astatine nan extremity of her post.

The mostly of commenters assured nan OP that she has each correct to consciousness disappointment by her mom’s behavior.

"Yes, that’s bats---!” 1 personification said. “I’d show her I don’t want to perceive astir nan keys again unless it’s her apologizing and telling maine she’s recovered them location else!”

“Just show her you person looked and can't find them. If she wants to look, she's welcome, but there's small point. Tell her to look elsewhere [and] that you haven't seen aliases touched them and won't beryllium held responsible for 'losing' them,” said personification else.

Another personification said, “I’d beryllium pointing retired that looking aft nan keys was her responsibility, not yours. I’d connection for her to sojourn and look for them herself. The likelihood is that she’s mislaid them location wholly different.”

Some people, however, pointed retired that there’s a chance nan keys could beryllium successful nan location — particularly successful a location pinch a toddler.

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“Toddlers do prime things and move them randomly, particularly if it's thing retired of nan ordinary/unusual,” said 1 commenter, adding, “Have you checked cupboards, drawers, shoes, etc. successful nan vicinity and asked your toddler if they picked up what granny put connected nan hallway table?”