I’m a flight attendant — marrying us is a ‘bad idea’ and not as sexy as you think

Saying “I do” to a personnel of nan compartment crew could beryllium a flight risk — warns 1 wingwoman. 

Although nan thought of landing a basking formation attendant arsenic your hubby aliases woman mightiness sound enticing, an master of nan friends skies is issuing a word-to-the-wise against getting hitched to folks successful her field. 

“I dislike to beryllium nan 1 to burst your bubble. But I beryllium it to you to beryllium honest,” Sil, a formation attendant and first responder, captioned a trending Instagram clip titled: “5 Reasons dating/marrying a formation attendant-first responder is simply a bad idea.”

“The aged sexist stereotype astir formation attendants is simply not true,” she wrote, dismantling longstanding fantasies of malleable, mile-high hotties who unrecorded solely to fulfill nan needs of others. 

“There are immoderate traits that formation attendant – first responders person that don’t precisely make america nan [ideal] partner.”

And her rundown of their less-than-ideal ways mightiness person a fewer imaginable suitors looking for nan emergency exits. 

Sil’s database is gaining viral acclaim conscionable days aft Cierra Mistt, a commercialized and charter formation attendant, revealed that formation attendants and pilots routinely person sex successful nan cockpit during agelong hauls. 

“No. 1,” began Sil, “We don’t precisely deterioration our hearts connected our sleeves. We are bully astatine empathizing, but our first responder life has taught america to support our emotions nether wraps.”

“No matter really hurt, angry, disappointed aliases sad we are, you’ll seldom spot america outcry aliases show overmuch of immoderate emotion but being happy,” she continued. “If you spot thing else, you’re lucky. We don’t stock our feelings easily.”

Secondly, Sil said, “We tin put a grin connected our look done anything. We cognize really to propulsion it together nary matter really overmuch we are falling apart. It makes america difficult to read.”

The in-flight insider went connected to uncover that she and her coworkers aren’t clingers. 

“We are fiercely independent/self-reliant,” Sil noted arsenic nan 3rd logic getting successful a narration pinch her ilk is ill-advised. 

“The aged adage, ‘The only 1 you tin dangle connected is yourself,’ comes into play a lot,” she explained.

“This besides intends we person zero problem doing things by ourselves. We won’t hold for you. Don’t wanna get connected board, it’s ok. You do you & we’ll do us.”

And erstwhile it comes to keeping successful changeless communication, a formation attendant’s inamorato tin hide it. 

“Definitely do not expect america to telephone you galore times a time giving you updates astir who we’re pinch & what we’re doing,” Sil asserted. “Might sound appealing, but astir group can’t grip that magnitude of independence.”

The free-spirit’s 4th reddish emblem is each astir nan thrill of takeoff. 

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“We will jump astatine an opportunity for an adventure. Give america formation [benefits] & we’re off! That mightiness mean pinch you, friends aliases connected our own!.”

Last, but surely not least, Sil forewarned wannabe lovebirds that formation attendants often person a plethora of pals — guys and gals — each complete nan world. 

Thus, their partner would person to beryllium mentally and emotionally unafraid capable to grip nan heat. 

“We make friends wherever we spell & person some female & antheral friends — we are formation attendants because we are capable to make group consciousness astatine ease,” she said astatine her 5th and last point.

“We tin beryllium charming moreover erstwhile we are enforcing FAA rules. People thin to talk to america easy & we’re easygoing capable to not beryllium bothered by ‘odd’ things astir different people”

Still, each dream isn’t mislaid for hopeless romantics who conscionable truthful hap to activity successful nan clouds. But nan cardinal mightiness beryllium marrying a chap predominant flyer. 

Alexander and Kita Valur, some formation attendants for Icelandic hose Play, tied nan knot astatine 30,000 feet connected Valentine’s Day this February. 

“During these 2 years, we person traveled a batch together, some to France and different countries, arsenic good arsenic wrong Iceland,” nan groom said successful a connection shared pinch The Post by PLAY. “When we heard astir nan thought that it was imaginable to get joined connected committee … we thought, why not? It conscionable fresh perfectly pinch each of our adventures.”

“We emotion traveling.”