Man Says His Girlfriend Asked Him to Leave Their Apartment for a Week While She Grieves, But He Declined: ‘I Have Nowhere to Go’

A man has been near reeling aft his girlfriend ordered him retired of their location truthful she could grieve successful peace.

He elaborate successful a Reddit post that his woman “just mislaid personification adjacent to her and is grieving.” She asked if he was consenting to time off their flat for a week truthful that she could person immoderate time, but he couldn't grant that request.

“I told her sorry I can’t because I person nary wherever to go, my family lives excessively acold away, my friends don’t really person nan abstraction for maine correct now,” he wrote, adding “and I don’t want to walk nan money to enactment astatine a edifice for a week.”

His determination has near his woman “upset,” and she has accused him of “making things worse.”

The man revealed he hasn’t received overmuch support from his friends either, who deliberation he should springiness his partner abstraction but aren’t offering him replacement accommodations. 

“They’re saying I request to springiness her abstraction but besides aren’t opening their homes aliases offering to thief pinch a hotel,” he wrote.

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He continued that his woman wasn't arsenic frugal arsenic him erstwhile it came to expenses, and that is wherever immoderate of nan hostility is coming from.

She “thinks paying for a edifice for a week is nary large deal. That’s why she is truthful upset, I did inquire her to thief salary but her money is going towards ceremonial costs,” he wrote.

The man sought feedback connected whether he was successful nan incorrect for not leaving, and Reddit users responded overwhelmingly successful support of him, questioning whether nan narration was successful trouble.

“You’re her bf [boyfriend], if she can’t beryllium sad aliases grieving astir you why is she pinch you aliases surviving pinch you? If y’all were joined would she expect you to time off each clip past too,” 1 personification wrote.

Another commentator echoed that her asking him to time off was not a bully parameter of really she processed her feelings erstwhile times sewage hard.

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“If her coping system for trauma is to push you away, this does not bode good for your relationship. Do you really want to enactment pinch personification who runs distant erstwhile things get difficult ?” nan commenter wrote. “When things are easy, life tin beryllium great! But nan existent trial of a narration is erstwhile things are hard.”

Another questioned why nan woman didn’t take to time off herself.

“She tin get a edifice if she wants her ain space,” nan personification wrote.