Married men who seek out affairs on cheating sites all have this one thing in common

She reports connected “current affairs.”

A Sun newsman who dated cheaters to shed ray connected their habits discovered an unexpected common denominator among nan unfaithful — they each professed to emotion their partners and only wanted to cheat to person immoderate “excitement” successful their lives.

The scribe, named Mel Fallowfield, 52, gleaned this paradoxical-seeming insider info by going undercover connected nan tract Illicit Encounters, which was created successful 2003 to thief joined men and women activity immoderate hanky panky extracurricular nan marital confines, the Sun reported.

The tract reportedly has 1.5 cardinal users, pinch sign-ups soaring successful September, which Fallowfield attributed to summertime putting a strain connected relationships.

“Intrigued by nan numbers, and pinch my husband’s blessing, I group up a ‘fake’ floor plan to find retired what benignant of men a tract specified arsenic this attracts — and why do these men cheat?” questioned nan alleged Donnie Brasco of extramarital affairs.

Despite putting up a alternatively staid floor plan by Illicit Encounters’ standards — mentioning really she felt “frisky” and “liked authorities and existent affairs” — Fallowfield received astir 30 messages successful 30 minutes.

Many of nan profiles nan undercover person perused were “quite similar” pinch cheaters looking for “stolen moments of fun” and claiming that they were “missing excitement” contempt having a “good marriage.”

“In fact, galore said they didn’t want to ‘rock nan marital boat….how noble of them,” Fallowfield snarked. “I’d opportunity 90% of nan profiles I publication made it clear they didn’t want their marriages to extremity — and remarkably, they each doted connected their wives.”

The first personnel of nan fling ring, Tom, allegedly 62, had 2 grown-up daughters and said he was fond of his wife. Despite drifting apart, nan brace still made whoopee.

This wasn’t nan first rodeo for nan sidepiece seeker, who had “successfully had an matter for 2 years previously, but that it fizzled out,” Fallowfield wrote. “He told maine he was looking for uncomplicated activity and nosy that wouldn’t disrupt nan position quo of his marriage.”

She was taken aback when, astatine nan conclusion of nan date, nan philanderer leaned successful for a kiss, which Fallowfield “dodged successfully.”

Illicit brushwood number 2 was a 52-year-old man pinch a 12-year-old boy who hadn’t had activity pinch his woman since their kid was calved — but purportedly still loved her.

“He claimed to still adore her –which I soon realized is simply a communal denominator pinch these cheaters — but missed beingness intimacy,” said Fallowfield.

Following her acquisition down men-emy lines, Fallowfield concluded that cheaters were arsenic divers a bunch arsenic any.

“Overwhelmingly, I realized that location is nary type; these men were from each walks of life, immoderate had children, others didn’t, they were from each property groups,” she said, adding that nan only done statement is that they professed to emotion their wives.

While a alleged cheater mightiness beryllium difficult to prime retired of a crowd, location are immoderate telltale informing signs that one’s soulmate is engaging successful sextracurriculars.

According to professional “honey trapper” Madeline Smith, who uses herself arsenic bait to make adulterers uncover their existent form, cheaters hide their phones to conceal scandalous correspondence, omit their important different from their pics, and — hold for it — usage Snapchat.

“There is nary bully logic why immoderate man past schoolhouse property should person Snapchat connected his phone,” nan pro-pinup wrote. “Snapchat — pinch nan USP that it deletes messages aft they’ve been viewed — is an app for cheaters. I’ve only ever known big men usage it to nonstop and person definitive photographs.”