Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban's Parenting Plan amid Divorce States 'They Will Not Speak Badly of Each Other'

Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban person agreed to a parenting scheme that orders them not to speak poorly of each different astir their children.

According to tribunal documents obtained by PEOPLE, nan Babygirl star, 58, and nan state euphony singer, 57, who stock daughters Faith Margaret, 14, and Sunday Rose, 17, are not to speak severely of each different aliases different members of nan different parent's family. The parenting scheme outlined successful nan archive states that nan erstwhile mates will "encourage each kid to proceed to emotion nan different genitor and beryllium comfortable successful some families."

Both Kidman and Urban are besides mandated to be a parenting seminar wrong 60 days of nan divorcement filing.

The Perfect Couple character officially revenge for divorcement from nan "Messed Up As Me" songwriter connected Tuesday, Sept. 30. However, nan erstwhile couple's parenting scheme doesn't look to beryllium caller — Kidman signed nan documents connected Sept. 6 while Urban signed them connected Aug. 29.

According to nan tribunal documents, Kidman and Urban person besides agreed to Kidman becoming nan superior residential genitor of their daughters. Kidman will get 306 days pinch her daughters while Urban will get 59 days pinch them — meaning the Holland star has much than 5 times nan magnitude of days arsenic her estranged husband. 

Alongside her teenage daughters, Kidman is mom to boy Connor, 30, and girl Bella, 32, pinch ex Tom Cruise.

While nan Oscar winner officially revenge for divorce successful Nashville courts connected Tuesday, news of their separation came to ray nan time prior.

Reps for Urban and Kidman did not respond to PEOPLE's requests for comment.

One insider told PEOPLE connected Monday, Sept. 29, that Kidman "didn’t want this," and the Babygirl star "has been fighting to prevention nan marriage."

However, a root successful Urban’s circle told PEOPLE that nan prima has “just been going done immoderate stuff” as of late. “He has been making questionable choices for immoderate clip now and this was not nan lawsuit of them conscionable drifting apart,” added a Kidman source.

Kidman and Urban person been joined since 2006. They've said they had an instant attraction erstwhile they first met at a gala successful 2005 and yet wed nan pursuing year.

Kidman and Urban tied nan knot in a candlelit ceremonial astatine St. Patrick's Estate successful nan beachside suburb of Manly successful Sydney. Kidman's kids, Bella and Connor, were besides portion of nan couple's large time — Bella was successful Kidman's bridal party.

Since 2007, nan 2 person called Nashville location and raised their 2 teenage daughters there. Kidman has often shared really adjacent she is pinch her family, including successful a May question and reply with Allure.

"Yeah, I'm very adjacent to some my girls," Kidman said of her teenage daughters. "I beryllium connected their beds and talk nan astir friendly things; I get to beryllium their guide."

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"If they want to show maine to beryllium quiet, they can," she added. "I'm capable to apologize to them. I'm capable to guidelines up to them. I very overmuch for illustration nan narration we have. It's bully to beryllium capable to opportunity that."

A root antecedently told PEOPLE successful August that Kidman spent nan summertime pinch nan pair’s daughters.

“While Keith has been distant connected circuit each summer, Nicole and her daughters person been inseparable, spending clip together bonding," nan root said. "Now nan attraction is backmost to schoolhouse successful Nashville, wherever Nic has been getting nan girls fresh for nan caller year.”