“RHONY” Star Ubah Hassan Gets Engaged to Investment Banker Oliver Dachsel in Romantic Outdoor Proposal

Ubah Hassan is engaged!

The Real Housewives of New York City star, 41 said "yes" to finance banker Oliver Dachsel successful an outdoor proposal. She shared photos of nan romanticist infinitesimal connected Instagram connected Saturday, May 31, on pinch a elemental quote: "To emotion and beryllium loved by personification truthful kind, profoundly good, and softly breathtaking 💍 🧿."

The photos show nan mates enjoying a glamorous picnic successful nature, pinch sweeping views of mountains and cloud-filled bluish skies. Several shots show Dachsel down connected 1 knee successful beforehand of Hassan, holding a ringing container and, later, slipping nan sparkler connected her finger.

The reality prima appears flooded pinch emotion successful 1 threat featuring nan 2 embracing.

The comments of nan station were filled pinch well-wishes from Hassan's chap Bravo stars, including Garcelle Beauvais, who apparently already knew astir nan engagement. She wrote, "So happy we tin now celebrate!!! Hard to support your concealed #lovewins ❤️❤️."

RHONY costar Sai De Silva commented: "I’m crying truthful difficult correct now and I already knew nan news 😢."

Ariana Madix gushed, "ubah!! i’m truthful happy for you 🥰🥰🥰🥰 congratulations beautiful ❤️❤️."

Hassan first teased her narration pinch Dachsel successful nan later episodes of play 14 of her Bravo show, coyly referring to him only arsenic "Mr. Connecticut" but declining to stock details. During nan reunion episode, which aired connected Oct. 22, 2023, she explained why she was keeping their romance nether wraps.

“He is very backstage because of his work,” she said astatine nan time, confirming that they were still dating. According to Dachsel's LinkedIn, he has worked arsenic Senior Vice President of Capital Markets for Aris Mining since April 2024. Prior to that, he was astatine Jeffries for much than 7 years.

During nan reunion, Bravo big Andy Cohen gave his stamp of support for Hassan's now-fiancé. He revealed astatine nan clip that he had met Daschel and was impressed by really “tall and handsome” he was.

Hassan's costars past chimed pinch their ain praise, pinch Erin Lichy raving, “He’s nan astir beautiful man, really, and very handsome." De Silva said, “He is truthful successful emotion pinch her. He has sparkles successful his eyes.”

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"He is nan cleanable counterpart to Ubah,” Jessel Tank added. “He is patient, he is loving. He benignant of conscionable looks astatine her for illustration she is creation successful a museum.”

The 2 made their nationalist debut arsenic a mates conscionable days later, stepping retired to nan 2023 American Ballet Theatre Fall Gala successful New York City.

"It's our first clip connected nan carpet together," Hassan told PEOPLE astatine nan event, noting that nan brace are some fans of nan ballet. "We emotion it, it's very beautiful. We conscionable saw [George Balanchine's] Jewels last month, it was my day present."

Hassan besides told PEOPLE that she and Dachsel had been making love for “over a year” aft gathering “through friends.”

"I want to opportunity things like, 'We met connected Tinder aliases Bumble,' but not really,” she jokingly added.

In summation to their eventual wedding, nan mates has different large plans for their future. During RHONY's play 15 premiere, which aired in October 2024, Hassan revealed that she wanted "to commencement trying" to get pregnant toward nan extremity of nan year.

“I ne'er thought I wanted to person a baby,” she said successful a confessional. “I’m a small spoiled erstwhile it comes to my sleep, erstwhile it comes to doing what I want to do, recreation to Paris conscionable to person dessert. But erstwhile I’m talking to Oliver astatine meal clip pinch a small candlelight, I’m like, ‘Yes, let’s do it.' "