Sex expert reveals couples’ most popular secret fantasies — and the top kink might shock you

To person and to hold? Or to person and to cuckold? 

They opportunity cheaters ne'er prosper. But, if your partner’s imagination is watching you spell to lb municipality pinch different personification — then, hey, you’re successful a win-win situation. 

And activity expert Adreena Winters says nan cuckolding kink is measurement “more communal than astir group think.”

“There’s truthful overmuch imagination and worldly retired location — but group request applicable proposal connected really to attack it,” Winters, 37, writer of “So You Want to Be a Cuckold?,” told JamPress of nan secretly celebrated fetish. 

Cuckolding typically involves a feline taking pleasure successful watching his different half having activity pinch a much ascendant man. 

“I talk astir what it is and really to attack your partner astir it,” explained nan NSFW know-it-all, who, successful her tome, offers couples a woman’s position connected champion practices for pitching intersexual fantasies to 1 another. 

“It’s very easy to put a partner disconnected very quickly if you spell astir it successful nan incorrect way,” she warned. “I besides talk really to vet group that you mightiness want to induce successful and really to navigate jealousy.”

When three isn’t a crowd, it’s nan thought that counts. 

Thoughtfulness is cardinal erstwhile making immoderate unusual activity request, arsenic fetishes tally nan gamut from cleanable and squeaky to ace freaky. 

Beach shot porn became each nan rage this summer, sparking a 46.85% surge successful XXX-rated contented that featured folks blowing up nan inflatable playthings.

Still, nan giantess fetish — a intersexual fascination pinch preternaturally ample women — remains nan commonest kink crossed nan US, per a 2025 study on nan most-searched fetishes successful each state. 

And Winters, nan self-titled “Queen of Cuckolds,” from nan UK, has heard of them all. 

“A batch of men emotion being told they person a mini willy,” nan sexpert said of dudes pinch predilections for penis humiliation. “They for illustration proceeding it moreover if their dick is perfectly average.

“I’m a size queen and I person rather precocious standards, truthful penis humiliation is easy for me,” confessed nan skinfluencer, who shares steamy selfies and snippets connected OnlyFans. “I emotion doing it and it’s fun.”

“A batch of men want their partner to beryllium much dominant,” continued Winters. “I’m uncovering that women are besides initiating more, and that’s rather exciting.”

Feederism, a intersexual enactment during which thrill-seekers get turned connected by watching each different eat and summation weight, is besides buzzy successful nan bedroom, according to nan Brit. 

“The kinks ever rustle my mind,” she said earlier naming a funky fixation that a faction of fellas look to love. 

“Farting is huge,” Winters revealed. “I don’t cognize why, but men look to really for illustration nan thought of women farting successful their faces.”

“It’s different but harmless enough” said nan pro. “Female wrestling is besides really popular.”

Winters, however, cautions hedonists against throwing be aware to nan wind, and astonishing their important different pinch an off-the-wall fantasy. 

“Don’t conscionable driblet your kink into your partner’s lap,” she urged. “You don’t want to scare them off.

“Good connection is really important, and nan taxable needs to beryllium broached gently,” Winters said.  “It’s besides bully to retrieve that if location is humiliation progressive successful nan kink your partner wants to try, it’s not needfully from a antagonistic place.”

“You request to beryllium showing each different support,” she insisted, “and making judge that you some consciousness safe and unafraid successful immoderate situation.”