“The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives”' Jessi Ngatikaura Claps Back at People for Saying She Looks 'Masculine'

Jessi Ngatikaura is addressing her haters.

The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star, 33, shared 2 posts connected her Instagram Stories opening up astir nan scrutiny connected her quality that's travel pinch being connected reality TV.

"Just a gentle reminder that it's ne'er good to remark connected a woman's post, 'You're looking much transgender by nan day,' aliases 'Your features are truthful masculine,' " she began.

"Most of nan clip these comments don't get to me, but I'm emotion very emo coming and want to ne'er station again truthful convey you trolls."

In a follow-up, Jessi continued, "I person a defined jaw statement because of a TMJ room I got, and I committedness it's nan number 1 point that group show maine makes maine look for illustration a man. Sorry Karen, I can't power that?! I besides get roasted for getting integrative room done but past get endless comments astir my looks that make maine much insecure truthful you tin ne'er win."

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In a video further discussing nan taxable later, Jessi explained she's presently "very emotional" and moving connected things successful therapy.

"I've been doing a batch of trauma activity to unpack puerility issues and different things I've been going through, and a batch things that are coming up are that I've ever felt not bully enough. And I consciousness for illustration possibly I'm hypersensitive to it, but I do consciousness for illustration retired of each nan girls connected nan cast, I get nan astir dislike for my looks."

"It's because everyone other is truthful beautiful, but I consciousness for illustration I get nan astir disapproval for it. I look old. I look for illustration a man. It's ever something," she levels.

"So I conscionable consciousness for illustration I'm hypersensitive to it because I do comparison myself to nan different girls and I'm trying to activity done trauma of not emotion bully capable and clearly, I person insecurities."

Jessi urged group to beryllium nicer online, adding, "You ne'er cognize what group are going done and it ruins someone's day. Don't do that."

Prior to play 2 of nan reality series, Jessi took to Instagram to talk astir her Weir excision — a process that reduces nan width of a person's nostrils — and really her clip connected nan show affected her determination to person nan surgery.

"I'm not ashamed to admit that because I'm human," she wrote connected Instagram Stories erstwhile asked if filming nan deed Hulu bid made her much insecure astir her appearance. "People person been atrocious astir my looks & it decidedly affected my confidence. But I besides had insecurities earlier that I wanted to tweak truthful I took attraction of them!"

Ahead of the new season — slated to beryllium released successful outpouring 2025 — Ngatikaura added, "I'm hoping my tegument will get thicker pinch each play bc this s--- is difficult lol."