Woman Says a Neighbor Walked into Her Home Uninvited to Ask a Question: "I Felt Really Uncomfortable"

A female says that a neighbor entered her location without being invited successful by an adult, and she’s wondering if she’s “unreasonable” to “find this rude.”

The female elaborate her communicative successful a forum connected nan U.K.-based organization tract Mumsnet.com, a spot wherever women tin activity proposal astir interpersonal dilemmas. In her post, nan female says that her caller neighbour has a boy who her ain 12-year-old boy plays pinch successful a communal plot area extracurricular their homes.

She says that recently, nan different mom — whom she calls “Nadia” — came by “to inquire maine something.” The female explains that her son was nan 1 who opened nan doorway for Nadia, and that he past called retired to fto her cognize Nadia was there.

“By nan clip I’d sewage to nan hallway, she was wrong my home, almost successful my lounge!” nan original poster (OP) says, adding, “She entered my location without being invited, and I felt really uncomfortable, arsenic I’ve only met her erstwhile before, soon aft they moved successful a fewer weeks ago.”

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“Am I being unreasonable to find this rude?” she asks astatine nan extremity of her post, earlier asking for “advice” connected “how to tackle this.”

A number of commenters said that they thought nan OP was overreacting, and immoderate moreover said that her small heart successful nan business — aka, leaving a neighbour retired connected her doorstep — would person been the ruder scenario.

“You mightiness see that it would person been rude of your boy to time off nan mother of a playmate extracurricular arsenic though she were an unwanted door-to-door salesman,” 1 personification said.

“I don’t deliberation that’s rude,” said personification else, adding, “If a kid you cognize opens nan door, you spell successful and unopen nan doorway down you truthful nan kid is not hanging astir nan unfastened doorway.”

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Someone other said, “Meh. It's not arsenic if she opened nan doorway herself and walked in. Your boy opened nan door. I mean, you could reason that it's a teensy spot cheeky, but not to nan constituent that you request to 'tackle' it.”

Others said that while they did find Nadia’s behaviour a spot forward, they besides wouldn’t fuss doing thing astir it.