Woman Says She Feels Like Her Husband’s Family Is Financially ‘Draining’ Them: ‘The Expectations Just Keep Growing’

A female is fed up pinch her husband’s family because she feels they are "draining" nan couple's finances.

In a Reddit post, which was shared connected nan website's "Am I nan A-----" forum, nan woman, 28, said she precocious sewage joined to her husband, 30, aft astir six years together.

Explaining that nan mates utilized to tally a creation consulting business together, nan female said her domiciled was to do "client [communications], admin and systems" truthful that her hubby "could attraction connected imaginative work.”

A fewer years ago, erstwhile their institution "financially picked up," nan female said it was a proud infinitesimal for both, and her hubby wanted to support his family, who lives successful India, “as soon arsenic nan money started flowing.”

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According to nan woman, her hubby — who is nan oldest of 12 siblings, respective of whom are nether nan property of 10 — began sending a batch of money overseas, helping his family bargain a car and salary disconnected debts.

The Reddit personification added that her partner besides funded his parents' wedding and sewage them land, and he besides sends them a monthly costs of $1,200.

Now, arsenic her husband’s family reaps nan benefits of their difficult work, nan female said nan mates is struggling.

Detailing that they are renting their home, nan Reddit poster said she is $18,000 successful debt, and her hubby has since asked her "to lend much toward our ain bills.”

While she acknowledged that her husband, who she said has "a awesome heart," is nan breadwinner ever since she near their company, nan female expressed that she doesn't deliberation they tin prolong his existent level of generosity.

“I’ve told him earlier that his early financial gestures group nan barroom really high, and now nan expectations conscionable support growing," she wrote.

Added nan woman, "I’m not against helping — but it feels for illustration we’re ever building personification else’s early while our ain life keeps getting delayed."

In nan comments conception of nan post, galore felt that nan mates was being taken advantage of.

“You're backing their rental spot dreams while you salary rent, seriously? Tell him straight: either you some travel first, aliases this full point falls apart,” 1 commentator wrote.

Another said, “You perfectly person to nip this NOW aliases make your bid pinch it. Especially erstwhile it comes to paying for nan siblings’ higher acquisition and weddings."

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Some others, meanwhile, felt that if nan mates didn't reside nan issues now, it could eventuallly effect their marriage.

“This is called financial infidelity," 1 personification wrote, adding, "To me, this is conscionable arsenic large of an rumor aliases worse than beingness cheating."